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August 2, 2017 | Jennifer Vander Molen

From Complication and Frustration to A Third Place

Often people think that what we do at The Colossian Forum centers around conflict resolution and agreeing to disagree. Those simple phrases don’t quite capture how reframing the conversation around love of God and love of neighbor can truly transform messy situations into deep spiritual growth and witness.

That’s why this eight-minute video from Parker Palmer is so illuminating. This Quaker elder and educator shares about finding a third space in the middle of polarizing sides clashing. He acknowledges that when conversation around difficult issues involves us throwing conclusions at one another, it’s not a conversation worth having because it won’t go anywhere worth going. The centrality of right relationship with our fellow brothers and sisters is vital to holding complexity all the way to new possibilities.

Here at TCF, we’re the first to admit that us humans are complicated and the topics we delve into are complicated. But we believe there’s a way forward. We’ve seen it happen. This video helps articulate the deeper third space this process and framing inhabits. We hope it will help identify, clarify, and move you forward.

Thanks to our partners at Long Beach Christian Fellowship, who shared this video with us and plan to use it to explain The Colossian Way to their church.

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