What Does Practicing Virtue Look Like? A Study of Prudence
One of the most important virtues for us to practice is the virtue of prudence. Contrary to popular belief, prudence doesnâ€™t mean being stingy or too scared to act. Prudence is the practice of wisdom or seeing rightly. Â Practicing the virtue of prudence is akin to actively resisting impulsive actions, like devouring that whole chocolate cake. Or not letting fearful and prideful passion overrun you in an anxious situation. Practicing prudence can also mean resisting stubbornness. We do these things until it becomes second nature to us. Itâ€™s wise not to eat the whole chocolate cake--thatâ€™s prudence. Let me give you an example of someone who practiced the virtue of prudence: In the movie Billy Elliot, a boy named Billy tries to be a boxer. He knew what boys did with their pastime: boys box. Those are the facts. Thereâ€™s one small flaw: heâ€™s horrible at boxing. One day Billy sees the ballet class going on next door. As heâ€™s looking in at the class, Mrs. Wilkinson, the instructor, invites him in. She quickly sees that Billy has the capability to become a prolific ballet dancer. For Billy and his family, this canâ€™t be true; boys donâ€™t dance, they box. Those are the facts. Every impulse and passion of Billyâ€™s community says that boys canâ€™t be ballet dancers. The community is stubborn in what they think they know the truth is and should be. But itâ€™s Mrs. Wilkinsonâ€™s good habit, practicing prudence, that enables her to see the truth that Billy isnâ€™t a boxer, but an amazing dancer. Through practicing the virtue of prudence, Mrs. Wilkinson was able to show the truth that Billy was made to dance. What ended up happening was that the rest of their community came to more fully know both truth and love. In their conflict, a good habit got them to a new place they never knew was possible. Practicing virtues are the way that liberates us to actually know truth and love. It liberates us from our old selves which are impulsive, passion-driven, and stubborn. Practicing prudence allows the Holy Spirit to get to us. Itâ€™s letting the Holy Spirit lead us to where we too can be liberated of our own ideas of who we think God is. Thatâ€™s what The Colossian Way is designed to do: liberate us from speaking past each other and missing out on truth and love. Come and Dance Friends, God is always speaking. Just like in the beginning, Heâ€™s speaking and creating something new, this time heâ€™s making us anew. Â Heâ€™s speaking through the Bible, but the Holy Spirit is also communicating to us as through prayer and through each other. Come join this dance, and learn to dance with truth and love.