May 11, 2016
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Jennifer Vander Molen
Millennials Pursue Unity: The Front Lines of Ecumenism
Rebecca Kates, former intern at The Colossian Forum, wrote a series of blog posts for us about millennials and how they see and pursue unity. Here’s part one, part two and part three of the series. She recently graduated with a masters degree in Theological Studies at Calvin Theological Seminary, and we’re thrilled to share her insights with you. Over the past several months, a group of friends and I have engaged in a series of forums regarding issues important to Millennials in the Church. Topics have included poverty and economics, environmental issues, submission in the Church, and many more. These are topics that are extremely important to the Body of Christ in the present era, but the Church is by no means unified on the answers. For these forums, young people from many different denominations have been present as we enjoyed food and drink, laughed and prayed together. Many of our participants have expressed a feeling of excitement, belonging, and rejuvenation in the midst of these conversations. How is it that in the midst of what should be contentious issues, these people have found a sense of community and belonging? What is it about these experiences that people find good and life-giving? In my previous blogs (read part one, part two, and part three), I discussed the great potential for the Church to grow in unity. I suggested that this could be the missing factor that could draw people of my generation back to the church. The question now is what are the benefits and challenges of engaging in this sort of exercise in ecumenism? To explore this, I turn once again to the responses of over 300 young adult participants involved or previously involved in an ecumenical college ministry, University Christian Outreach. The participants came from a variety of nondenominational churches, Protestant, Roman Catholic and various Orthodox traditions. The participants engaged in a number of ecumenical practices including communal prayer, worship, spiritual conversations, Bible study, meals, and living situations. The model practiced here is similar to a model of receptive ecumenism where participants brought their beliefs and Christian practices from their backgrounds that could enrich and not compromise other participants beliefs and practices. These participants had overall agreement (86.6%) that knowing Christians from different denominations had drawn them closer to Christ. How did they build relationships and what obstacles did they have to overcome? A major challenge mentioned by participants was overcoming misconceptions they had of others or others had of them. 72.08% of participants agreed with the statement, “I had one or more misconceptions of a different denomination before meeting someone from that tradition.” Many of the participants’ misconceptions consisted of questioning the authenticity of another’s faith in Jesus based on how the person practiced or failed to practice various spiritual activities. Many did not understand the reason behind various practices. The following responses illustrate this: I had the misconception that Protestants were more about obeying God because if they don't they will burn in hell forever (as opposed to Catholics trying to do it more to please God and for love). I could overcome this prejudice by spending time, praying and worshiping with them to have an experience of my own which showed me that wasn't the case. I have been able to overcome other similar misconceptions the same say, perhaps being the most important one my relationship with Mother Mary and also the importance of the Sacraments for me. The biggest difficulty in building a relationship with my Greek Orthodox friend was not knowing different aspects of her faith. I did not understand why she had so many icons and why she prayed with them. I asked her a lot of questions about her denomination and she explained a lot of things to me. That helped us grow closer and overcome our differences with understanding. Some even encountered other Christians doubting their salvation or relationship with Jesus: I was once faced with a friend's parents and uncles having some doubts about me being saved because I was a Catholic. I had dinner at their house quite often so over time I was able to share my faith, mostly through talking about my relationship with God through Jesus and my service to church. They asked many questions so I was able to share my thoughts. It was helpful. They recognized my sincerity and dedication to evangelism and I think that helped break down some of their doubts about Catholicism or at the very least my own salvation. The whole experience showed me that they were concerned more for me than what denomination I was a part of and that was nice. They also grew to respect me. We still have a mutual respect for each other. I think there was an openness and a humility on both parts to stick to the friendship long enough to get to the point of mutual understanding and respect. Another difficulty that was fairly common for participants was facing triumphalist attitudes from other participants or feeling proselytized: A challenge that I have faced and continue to face is the stance of many Catholics on the inherent superiority of their church. On an emotional and intellectual level, I can feel offended or slighted by this. Here again, building relationships of trust has been key--when I have Catholic friends who I know respect me and respect my relationship with the Lord and knowledge of him, I am encouraged to be able to move forward in relationship with other Catholics, despite the overall stance that I find off putting. The biggest challenge I had was with some Eastern Orthodox. Though I adored many of their theological views, I often find dialogue strained by some of their exclusivist views on the Church. I found some EO believers who were more willing to believe that I, as a non-Orthodox Christian, am in the Church, but my heart was still broken about the majority who do not believe I am truly in the Church of Christ. Nevertheless, when I found out their willingness to be friends, and see the image of God in me, as well as their refusal to say I am bound to hell and that they were more than hopeful for my salvation, I found peace. It took listening, and it took humbling on my part to realize that our languages and worldviews are very different, but I am thankful we can at least all see God in one another. [Challenges arose] when he/she was more interested in his/her doctrine and converting me than in Christ's will! Though some complained about people assuming they had triumphalist attitudes: A lot of people assume that being a Catholic, I am not ecumenical, am arrogant about my tradition, and think all others are wrong. I find this a common misconception that people have towards Catholics. Sharing my testimony and about my relationship with Christ helps people see that it is not our tradition that defines us and the boundaries and characteristics about our relationship with Christ. Also telling them that I very strongly believe and encourage ecumenism is helpful. Many, however, found the attitude of downplaying the importance of differences to be challenging as one respondent put it: “A frustrating notion that there are "no big differences". Though many people found that they learned something from a Christian of a different denomination, the majority still believed that theological differences are important and that they are part of the tradition they believe is best. These sentiments are illustrated in the following survey results: 57.68% agree or strongly agree with the statement, “My church could learn from the doctrines of a different denomination.” 21.16% disagree or strongly disagree. 21.16% neither agree nor disagree. 61.17%, agree or strongly agree with the statement, “My church could learn from liturgical practices of a different denomination.” 18.56% disagree or strongly disagree. 20.27% neither agree nor disagree. 64.51% agree or strongly agree with the statement, “Theological differences between denominations are important.” 13.65% disagree or strongly disagree, and 21.84% neither agree nor disagree. 62.88% agree or strongly agree with the statement, “I am part of the denomination that I think is best.” 9.28% disagree or strongly disagree. 27.84% neither agree nor disagree. The survey also sought to answer the question, “what practices can Christians engage in to foster unity? Which practices are the least helpful?”